Many clients (and people in general) become curious about the therapists they are talking to especially as the therapeutic relationship builds. Indeed sometimes a client may bump into their therapist outside the therapy room, out shopping, with their family etc.
All sorts of questions seem to emerge – has my therapist children? what issues have they experienced themselves? What brought them to this vocation? How much money are they making from this?
While in many modalities limited self disclosure does occur within the therapeutic relationship the process is obviously not focused on the therapist.
This article explores the issue from the perspective of a practitioner in private practice in Ireland and highlights issues many therapists will relate to. Might have some answers for those curious too!